Sunday, December 5, 2010

如何当一个好领导者

1. 协调的沟通

这是最基本的要求, 尽可能与下属当面沟通, 必要时才发电邮, 还要确保为整个团队及每一个员工都设定了明确的期许.

2. 赞赏与批评.

不可或缺的条件, 处理方式不同, 效果也会截然不同. 身为领导者, 轻拍下属肩膀以示鼓励动作, 要当着所有人面前来做, 而擂起胸部表示批评的动作, 不妨就私底下做做吧. 管理者还应当关注完成目标过程中每个员工所做出的努力, 而不仅仅是结果. 切记, 不管有多愤怒, 也不管有多么正当的理由可以冲着下属咆哮, 你的批评, 对下属造成的伤害会远远超出你的想像, 而且会产生适得其反的效果.

3. 学会倾听.

做决策的时候, 不妨听听团队成员的意见. 决策做出后, 果敢执行自然是好的, 但是在做出决策前自行其是, 不听他人意见, 这样的果敢就不一定能产生好的效果.倾听下属及团队的建议, 对他们来说是一种激励, 这能赋予团对成员以方向感和归属感.

4. 言行一致.

身为领导者, 不要把自己定位为团队的监督者. 事实上, 是整个团队在监督你. 因此, 一定要树立起一个好榜样, 身先士卒你自己确定的规则. 此外, 领导者还应当勇于承担错误, 这也是下属的期许.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

何为人生

何为人生, 到底我们满足现在的人生呢? 在一生中经历过非常多的第一次, 第一次学会说话, 第一次上学, 第一次拿奖, 第一次欢笑... 但人生也必须经历很多的最后一次, 最后一次考试, 最后一次看见自己心爱的确亲人一面... 那你的人生又会如何呢?
我今年已经23岁了, 今年也是我大学最后一年了, 过后即将面对那无情的社会了... 是否我所学到的能否帮我呢? 到底我们一生是为了什么而奋斗呢? 我的人生活了这么久, 所为的酸甜苦辣算是经历过了吧... 可是我的生活还是平平无奇... 不知想要的是什么... 成功真的那么重要吗? 对你们来说呢? 对我来说算满重要吧... 因为我总是被亲戚看不起, 你是否有这样的经验呢? 那问题又来了, 到底如何才算是一个成功的例子呢? 面对未来的挑战, 我们又该如何去面对呢?
好多好多的问题不断的出现... 不过生活还是得过... 何不用一个更轻快的心情去面对呢? 人人常说, 人生如梦,梦如人生... 真所为笑看人生.. 你又会怎样面对你的人生呢?

Sunday, October 11, 2009

TM Fiesta De Luna

Finally finish arrange all the photo and have time to post it. Tm Fiesta De Luna.... should be last project that i involved in university.... mmmm.... how to start the story.... Ok, the story begin like this... last year my friends came to find me and ask me whether to join the project or not... at first i'm still consider want to join or not... but seems he last time help me in other project, at last i join his project...

Fiesta De Luna came from Spanish word mean party of the moon... the name cool right... the project is a steambot dinner... this project including selling dedication, food stall coupon, t-shirt and steambot ticket... the first thing we need to sell is dedication... our dedication got few packages. package A is a 5 medium candle combine as a big shape in a box with price of RM12, package B is a small love shape candle with price of RM 3, package C is a medium star shape candle with price RM 5, and package D is a medium love shape candle with price of RM 5 also. all the package will include with a paper beg with some sweet, and mooncake. the dedication sales target was in my expectation, we finally hit the target... we do a lot for the dedication and feels happy when we saw the face of the person that receive the dedication... I know that there were many complaint from our members during doing dedication period... at here i would like to tell our members that we join project is to getting together and get fun during the project... don need to upset or get angry when others don want to help... because no one force them to do it... i am sure that the members that fully participate in the project will feel satisfy and happy isn't it...

the main event was the steambot dinner... although the feedback not really good but still got many friends that support our project...really thanks to them.... thanks to my roommate Xian You, Shee Lok, May Yinn, Pei Pei, Yee Chung, Lai Soon, Stanley, Liet Jye, Kei Kei, Ivan, Chin Kang, Wee Jack, Su yi, Sze Mun, Suat Sia, Evone and others that i forgot to mention, the event from the beginning was little bit uncontrol but it getting more smoothly after that... the event is start from 7.30pm to 10.30pm...

Organizing a project is not easy, many people that that is very easy... many things we have to concern about... i think i really happy to organizing this project with Thian Ming, Evone and Sal Le and committee.... although there were many complaints, criticism, problems that we have to face it but that our jobs... many people or members maybe misunderstanding about us... but it is Ok for us... because we already accept that people will think we are bad and not tolerance our members... but is ok.... all past already.... life still have to go on... and the conclusion is do not became a committee member in any project in UUM... will always became BAD PEOPLE... and stressful... enough for today.... because really feel sleepy... 1.57am... actually still got many part i din mention it... but just end it here... see the photos... it will tells u all more... :p 


Friday, October 9, 2009

Spying Secret

 So... what to start... finally feel want to start a blog.... share some story with u all.... the story begin like this, today i heard a story from my friend about few people spying other person secret.... you know like diary or pictures, something people do not want other to know it... but sadly, a person just left some personal thing in the room and some one just took it and read it....

I absolutely felt that this kind of action is very very very unethical!!!! how can they do like this... this is other people secret that do not want to let other people know, but you spy it.... open it... and just read it loud to let other people know... OMG what are these peoples, are they did not care about the person feeling... I was really pity for that person....

when i get know about this story... i really angry and some more they were my friends... i do not want to mention who.... but if they read this blog, they will know... i just want to let them know doing all this thing are really unethical... just mention that if others do the same thing to you... what is your feeling... really bad right... and very disappointed.... Maybe they think i am bull shit... Never mind i just want to skull it out... i think they should make apology to that person and tell the person they really do not mean like that...

I know that i not the really gentle or good person in front of people.... at least i wont to all these things... because i don like to act infront of people... i just want to show the truth side of me to everyone... some people infront with others just perfect or gentlemen... everyone thing they are the nice person... but behind of all those people.... mmmm... i think u all know that.... 

That all for today story... and is my voice inside my heart too... hope next time can share more about me.....................

Friday, July 31, 2009

Yupp... New Blog

Haha... Finally create a new blog... Hopefully can used it....

TALKING BIRD!!!!!